Comments on: Girlfriend Jokes About Me Being Gay, Do A Lot Of Girls Do This?

By: patito

patito — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 20:52:45 +0000

hmmm i joke to my boyfriend about stuff but not necessarily about him being gay b/c he isnt remotely close to looking like it. I do pick at things that relate to him, like that he’s ‘lazy’ and doesn’t want to pick me up and stuff like that..but that is only b/c he mentions it to me jokingly too (he is always saying he’s lazy yet works really hard and studied hard too). Basically, you probably are what we call here in the US, metro (a guy that is straight but has gay tendencies or dresses gay or is wayyyy tooo clean cut).
I think your girlfriend like s you and does have a good sense of humor and is also very outgoing and has a strong character for saying those things jokingly…i dont think she thinks you are gay, but i do think that she is picking at one thing that applies to your personality that she knows is true, but still accepts and finds endearing…like my bf being lazy, i know he isn’t, but at the same time he mentions he is and acts like it sometimes, so i joke, but it doesnt bother me or anything
Anywho, you may want to buy a shirt a bigger size though and make her feel secure…you dont want your gf feeling like she’s a lezbian or dating one of her girls

By: ?????????? ?? ??????????

?????????? ?? ?????????? — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 20:12:17 +0000

it’s ok that your g.f jokes at u beying a gay … i joke at my guy.f that they are gays …. its ok

By: SIR_CoHD

SIR_CoHD — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 19:17:11 +0000

mine did but it got old and anoying..

By: chechee

chechee — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 18:22:24 +0000

I do the same to my boyfriend. It’s just fun!

By: Miley

Miley — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 17:37:02 +0000

That girl is being mean, but you need to get some looser clothing so you don’t look gay.

By: MAE(iank

MAE(iank — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 16:59:46 +0000

no i do that to my best guy friend.
he hates it!!
but don’t worry, she doesn’t really think you’re gay.
& yay for skinny jeans and small t-shirts!!

By: averyxxa

averyxxa — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 16:26:12 +0000

It’s normal. I do it with my boyfriend all the time. I call him a bit brokeback and he plays along :] Don’t worry about it it’s a compliment. :]

By: redflagp

redflagp — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 16:25:34 +0000

fool she just playin my girl callls me gay alot and its funny cause she get mad cause my homies are fukn funny and they fight fro she gets upset casue they say that i love them more and they argue so ya its hella funny but u need to start wearting biger clothes cause maybe ppl thinkk u gay

By: Mouse

Mouse — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 15:58:33 +0000

Dude, it’s just a chick thing.
I do the same thing to my bf,
I dont mean anything by it and I’m sure she doesnt either.
and even if she did, it’d be that she thinks it would be hot if you were bi or gay or something along those lines.
Don’t take it personal. =]

By: Tearsofg

Tearsofg — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 15:13:52 +0000

Haha, I did this a lot with my ex. He let a guy a whole foot shorter than him beat him up. I know I shouldn’t had been laughing, but I was always saying,”Gosh, you’re such a girl… I’m sorry I wasn’t there to beat him up for you hahahaha.” Yeah he’d get pissed but it was funny.