how can i make my friends see?
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my ‘friends’ recently have been saying that im no fun anymore…
but what we use to was tease other people, be rude to teachers, laugh at jokes that were only to do with us when others were around… and other stuff like that
and ive realised that its no fun and rude and selfish…
i’ve tried to tell my friends that we should stop but they don’t listen
i don’t want to hang out with them any more but my school is really small.
do i have to be loner to do what i know is right?
please i need help! 
8 Comments so far
You definantly should bring it up to them, how your feeling and how wrong it feels to be rude to everyone around you. If they continue on and ignore your input, just leave them, if they are true friends they will come running back, and if not, its better to forgive and forget.
You are growing into maturity and they are not there yet. Continue to do the right thing and drift away from this crowd. People are brought into our path for a time, season and a reason and then we must move on in order to grow up. You are doing the right thing and soon they will see for themselves by your leading. I applaud you!
Hi well good for u, I commend what u have decided as it’s great and maybe u will get some, not all of the others to realize the error in their ways also by leading by example Cheers ?
you can hang out with them only in school so to have company (you don’t have to tell them your secrets or opinions just hang out)
and you can find school from out of school that would be better for you
(if you dont want to be lonely )
but If i were you i would say a coouple of rude words and leave
Firstly, I’d just like to applaud you from knowing right from wrong. You used to find in doing negative things that made other people feel bad. No, you don’t have to be a loner. You’ve become a different person than before, a better person, and now you have even more opportunities for friendships. Be nice to those around you, and apologize to some if you used to be rude to them. If you let people know that you’re no longer like that, and you show them a different, more caring side, then you will find that there are many possible friends out there for you, even in your small school, that are just waiting to be made. Good luck, and good job!
Erin
na u dnt have 2 stop hanging around with them if your still have things in common with them. if they want you 2 be rude then be rude but not 2 other people maybe you could stand up for people when ya mates start being bitchy! You can be a nice person but still have a ‘bitchy’ side and have a laugh but just not in front of people to upset them your a girl all girls r like that!
if their really that bad then maybe you could make more mate but still be mates with them also that way if you don’t want to hang around with them one day you know that your not going to be alone.
sorry if none of this makes sense! I’m not good with words!
r u really sure that there is no1 else u can hang round with?
if not u should stick were u r with ur m8s dont b a loner.
think about it this way:
if they were REAL friends, would you have to choose between doing what is right and leaving their group?
Besides, if they’re pressuring you into doing things you dont want to do, you can’t possibly enjoy spending time with them, unless you like to
“tease other people, be rude to teachers, laugh at jokes that were only to do with us when others were around… and other stuff like that”
it all comes down to how you feel and what kind of person you want to be.