How Should I Deal With Him?(sorry If Its Long)?

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QUESTION:

SO-
Over the summer i went out with this guy at camp. I liked him the year before so i was really happy when when he asked me out. I know that long distance doesn’t ever work and I’ve always been against it but I did it anyway.
It was going good at first but then he started to get in trouble and telling me he was “arrested” or something along those lines. he also does drugs and drinks all the time and i think he thinks i think(haha) that that its cool. I can tell he lies all the time but i can never make him admit it. One day we got into our one and only fight because i rarely ever fight with anyone. he got so angry that it scared me so i just told him im sorry and we dropped it. I guess i should tell you hes bi polar.
SO im kind of getting sick of him obsessing over himself. I mean i dont want to sound all needy or anything im really not like that but it would be nice for him to share a little interest in my thoughts. for example, i was sick for an entire week and he never asked once how i was.
another thing is i dont feel like i really know him or that he really knows me. We never really talk about our interests or anything because immediatly after i ask him how he is he’ll go into an” I love you more, no i love you more” thing. Whenever i have ever told him about stuff thats going on with me he’ll be against it like-
1) i just started an advanced school and hes mad that i like it (i dont really know why)
2) When i told him i want to go into psychiatry, he was TOTALLY against it, which i guess i can kind of understand why but still.
And he calls me a blonde which yea i understand its a joke but i dont take it that way and he knows that but he still says it.
My question- How do i break up with him?
Im afraid to because 1) he gets really angry ,as i said 2) i guess i kind of made him think that all these negative things are ok to me
haha wow i never realized how unhappy i am until i wrote this all out

1 Comment so far

  1. Rick on October 23, 2009 3:53 pm

    I think you should start by distancing yourself from him to see how he reacts. It might also be good to do it in a semi-public place in case he goes nuts. Try to be gentle but don’t lie to him. It may help him in the long run.




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