Comments on: Scared To Have A Child?

By: karateJe

karateJe — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 08:07:29 +0000

if my husband dared to treat me like that i would go live with my mom until he got a reality check

By: Raquel D

Raquel D — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 07:56:57 +0000

Are you sure you want to be around him? He is a butthole. You should retaliate in some sort of way…then blame it on the pregnancy. Men are sometimes insensitive and during pregnancy…they are the worse. Hurt his feelings just to make yourself feel better. He deserves it.

By: yomami

yomami — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 07:55:19 +0000

For one, don’t worry about what he has to say about you and your baby. Yeah, its not the prettiest thing in the world, but you are bringing your baby into the world. And the last thing on anybody’s mind at that point should be how gross it may be. You will be great! Secondly, I agree, I would give him a reality check to wake his a** up, because if he does this now, he probably always will! Good luck w/ everything. Plus, tell him to push a baby out his *&^*( and see how pretty THAT is!!

By: Beautiful Disaster_21

Beautiful Disaster_21 — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 07:28:38 +0000

your body will be the same after you have the baby just work out alot!!!
and newborns arent ugly they arent that kute because they havent developed but after the first couple weeks they will be sooo kute!!
did you tell him how he is making you feel!!
you should try that!!!

By: -

Sat, 12 Sep 2009 07:19:49 +0000

sounds like he’s being a little insensitive. I sometimes have the same problem with my fiance, but not to that extent. Have you tried telling him that he’s making you feel scared and insecure? Childbirth is a difficult task in itself, no need for your fiance to make it worse.

By: WhitneyR

WhitneyR — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 06:54:31 +0000

I’m sorry, but what a loser! If my husband talked to me that way, he wouldn’t have to worry about seeing me or our “ugly newborn” ever again!
You need wake this guy up! I don’t know who he thinks he is, but he DOES NOT have any right to treat you this way! Joke or not, you need to be clear that you don’t think it’s funny and that he needs to shut his flap!
It takes two to tango, and if he was SO worried about your body and the changes it will endure while your pregnant, then he shouldn’t have been participating in the conception!
And saying “maybe you should have had an abortion” isn’t even the slightest bit funny. (Pro-choice and Pro-life women will all agree that there is NOTHING funny about abortion, ever)
Tell him to grow up or get out of your life, you deserve to be treated like a queen right now! What’s going on inside of your body is nothing short of a miracle, and don’t you let anyone tell you any different!
Good luck, you’ll do amazing!

By: Honey

Honey — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 06:46:08 +0000

Having a baby doesn’t have to be a scary situation. Stay healthy during the pregnancy, still do light exercise like yoga or walking.keep your body healthy and your breathing consistant, you should do good. The last thing you need when you’re in labour to be stressed with your husbands comments. If i was you, i would nip it in the butt now with his teasing or threaten to leave him. You are the mother of his child and he should be comforting you not stressing you!

By: ?Instant

?Instant — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 05:55:40 +0000

And you want to marry this jerk? Ok whatever you think is best, but if some guy told me these things…even as a joke, I’d be out the door.

By: <3mily

Sat, 12 Sep 2009 05:11:01 +0000

dude thats horrible.
go stab him.

By: Mandiex

Mandiex — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 04:35:45 +0000

My husband jokes around all the time about it. It’s really freaking annoying. I tell him to stop but he just does it to get a rise out of me. (What are we? 10?)
He’s always commenting on my belly, and calls me tubby (I’m not tubby….JERK). And just pokes fun at all the changes I’m going through, and writes everything off as a preggo fit.
He also thinks that newborn babies are ugly, and teases me about the baby coming out black. (Accusing me of cheating on him with a black guy…WTF?)
He’s kidding…but it still gets to me.