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Hi guys, sorry for reposting (again, I so hate myself), but circumstances have changed.
There’s this guy (we’ll call him 1) I know through my current boyfriend (we’ll call him 2) who’s really funny & cute but not really my type (too short!!) & has a gorgeous fiancee . Anyway, we’ve become rather close in the 6 months I’ve known him & talk on facebook chat & in person nearly every night.
To start off with he started calling me all these pet names, like lovely & hunny etc. etc. and I played along just joking around. Then, a couple of months ago we were talking about rating girls out of 1-10 and he said I’m a perfect 10, but I thought he was joking so I didn’t put much to it. We’d been chatting for about an hour & he said randomly that if he was single, he’d take me right off my current boyfriend. Again I didn’t take much notice until he said it twice more.
Then a couple of weeks later my car broke & 1 spent all day fixing it & making it better than it was before it broke for nothing. I offered him $$, smokes or grog but he said it’s cool. But then my bf (tim) asked if he could fix his car & scott flat out said no.
I catch 1 watching me all the time but when we’re alone he won’t look at me. Also when I look at him when he’s looking at me he looks away quick. He has a tendancy to “cool off” for periods of time, when hes busy etc. & then comes back to normal.
This weekend we spent nearly everyday together (our friend group) & 1 was back to his flirty ways. He was always moving to sit next to me, when I was talking to my friends he’d distract me. When I was sitting across from him with my legs crossed, he kept kicking my foot. He called me baby in front of everyone so it makes me think its not serious… he also picked me up from work even though he was busy (Nothing happened – he didn’t make a move, just general chat). But sometimes he stands away from me, or refuses to look at me (he’ll look at 2 instead) which is what is confusing me.
Now the problem is, after the weekend, I think I may be starting to like him??? I’d never do anything cuz I’m in a relationship & so is he but I just need to put things straight so I can clear my head & move on.
I need to know if he is:
1: Just a flirty person
2: Actually likes/has crush on me
3: Just joking around
PLEASE HELP! I need clear, polite answers please!!
xox
But what if I ask him, and I am wrong? It would ruin 3 different friendships. That’s why I’m relying on you guys to help =(
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Well he shouldn’t be flirting at all with you if he has a fiancee, I think he has a crush on you definitely. He might be flirty but it sounds like he really likes you!!! Good Luck!!!
and thanks for answering my question, good answer.
Go up to him, and ask him what’s going on… Does he like you? I would be careful though because, if he was gonna marry you, would you want him to hurt you like this with another ?
This is a bit of a bad situation for you(. I get the feeling that maybe he feels unsatisfied with his current relationship and his feelings have changed towards you or he could just be an awesome friend. Sometimes guys, myself included, when they really like a girl they will go ABSOLUTELY out of their way to try and please women by helping them, making themselves available, always complimenting etc. The problem is that when the situation is complicated like yours, the line between friend and potential partner for guys is really blurred. I think that you will never truly know how he feels about you, and unfortunately, you will always wonder. Same thing happened to me, I would always help her because I wanted to date her, yet at the same time I wanted a best friend out of her. Complicated right? I wouldn’t worry too much about it. He is most likely just a great friend who feels really comfortable with you. It is really great to have a friend like that, but as I said before, you will most likely never know what the situation is. It will work itself out soon)). Good luck.
i think him and is fiancee’s relationship hasnt been going good so maybe that why hes coming to you and/or he realizes he has some feelings for you. dont worry and dont think too much about it cause things will work out =)
btw thank you for answering my question im gonna keep waving!! but be more careful when i do haha
Hey gal, its a simple concept wit guys!! Happens with my bf also.. & I din understand it until It was explained by a guy.. Even though u hav gr8 yummy food at home, they alwayz hav some space for some delicious looking food at a restaurant..
Wish u gud luck!!
Taking it lightly, seems like he’s jus flirting wit u.. He has mentioned that “If he was single”, that clearly says that he’s not looking forward to leaving his fiancée.. He’s jus flirting wit u, ur reciprocating and he’s enjoying it!! Every guy likes to feel tat he’s in demand & tatz wat this guy is tryin to do.. he wants to prove to himself tat even though he has a gal, he can make any gal fall for him.. Not tat he has any bad intentions, but some guys r like tat.. They do it “FOR FUN”..
Also, u’ve mentioned tat u don’t wana break this friendship.. For tat I sincerely suggest tat u stop flirting with him.. If his gal or ur guy come to knw abt this, they might be very hurt (I hav been on the other side of this).. & trust me, its very very hurtin.. If u like ur guy, jus stop flirting.. Talk to him (1) generally like u wud talk to other friendz..